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Anonymous said: None of the girls who asked me out were obvious, black leather wearing, stern faced internet porn style dommes. They are all normal women with warm friendly personalities who like to have a joke and a cuddle. I think sometimes we men get so caught up in our elaborate fantasies that we seperate sex from the rest of our lives. Guts, get fit, get solvent and tell people you like girls who are a bit bossy and if someone says "what? In be?", smile, shrug and nod. Give her a chance to come find you.

dominadesires:

ravensrandoms:

the-boss-anna:

selinaminx:

bossymsbecky:

And indeed, those stereotypes often have less to do with what women want than with what men (think they) want. Agree with all you say, so happy to post this part II as well!

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Well said…

Best advise I’ve ever seen from a subby man! Guys, get fit, get solvent and be honest and open about your affections for strong women. They want to find you, too! 

Yes.

Brilliant to see. :)

deviantfemme:

Feminist porn not only exists, it’s fucking hot.

I offer up proof for you which you can view with your own queer loving eyes: Olivia Woods and Vivi Marie for CrashPad. 

There is happy, enthusiastic consent when they try out the hitachi magic wand, and sweet giggling and tickling while they touch and kiss. There is responsive, light kink play with natural check-ins around likes/dislikes.

The way that Olivia and Vivi interact is natural and feels unscripted. And while my voyeuristic fix is completely fulfilled and I can happily orgasm along with these two, their focus never seems to be on providing a show. One of the great things about CrashPad is it always feels like you happened to wander into someone’s California bedroom, and they ignore you while they continue to pursue each others orgasms. This will also satisfy fans of traditional theatre, television, and film who are still dedicated to not breaking the fourth wall. 

Finally, for those who are doubtful that kids these days are learning anything useful, Olivia and Vivi prove that just isn’t so; they practice exceptionally good sharing skills with their toys, are careful with their scissor(ing), and are kind and considerate at all times. 

spicy-gear:

Buyer’s Guide: Best Sex Toy Cleaners

Using sex toys can be fun treat, but using a toy that hasn’t been cleaned properly can lead to health problems, which is no fun at all.

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As mentioned in Keep Your Dirty Stuff Clean and How to: Keep Your Sex Toy Like New, toy cleaners are the most effective means of ensuring your toy is free of any bacteriathat can lead to problems down the road such as bacterial vaginosis or vaginitis. Porous…

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destinedtobefan:

Men in armour aka every woman’s secret fantasy.

destinedtobefan:

Men in armour aka every woman’s secret fantasy.

mostly-jensen:

Dean Winchester + having the time of his life
↳6.18 - ‘Frontierland’

Because dancewithmejensen's wish is my command ^.^

devantheimpaler:

The Many Faces of Osric Chau 9.10.14

Photography by devantheimpaler

Rufio, Edward Scissorhands, and Princess Bubblegum costume by devantheimpaler

Booker Dewitt and Edward Kenyway costumes by Brent

Wonder Woman armor by Tatiana